Ten Sure Fire Ways to Destroy your Marriage
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These ten things will destroy your marriage. Avoid them like the plague. Building a strong marriage is full of do’s and do not’s. Sometimes looking at things to avoid is as strengthening as studying the things to do. You’re marriage should be valued and cherished, never let something else come and de-throne that priority.
1- Stop Saying I love you- This is simple but profound. These three words not only express how you feel but they show your spouse that those feeling you have are strong enough to carry you to action. When you stop saying I love you it is easy to forget what too often is just assumed in married couple. That they really do love each other.
2- Entertain Immoral Thoughts- Thoughts like these destroy the respect you have for your wife. Intimacy isn’t a public thing it is between you and your one and only.
3- Stop really listening- Want to ruin a good thing, multitask while you are listening to your wife or husband. When your ears tune them out so will your heart. You are showing them that they are only worth half of your effort or that something else ranks as highly as they do.
4- Yell- Raising your voice only brings out defense tactics. Keep a cool calm voice and your point will be heard
5- Accuse- blame your spouse for everything and make them the enemy in your argument. You can ask them to change something they do but don’t accuse them and insult them while you do.
6- Lie- Lying to your spouse is a sure fire way to take three steps backwards in your marriage. You have worked long and hard for their trust; don’t destroy that in one simple situation.
7- Work All Your Time- Don’t spend so much time trying to make a living that you forget to make a life. Take time for what really matters.
8- Remember Old Wrongs- People change and grow, we expect others to realize that about us but often forget that principal with those we love most. Let your spouse change. Don’t bring up old wrongs to prove a point, let them change and move on.
9- Don’t be overly sensitive- Don’t expect your spouse to never disagree or offend you. Those are unreal expectations, be open instead to their opinion trying as hard as possible to not take it personally.
10- Expect ESP- Expecting your spouse to read your mind will never help. If you want them to know something tell them don’t expect them to just know if you have never said anything to them.
Marriage takes work and caution but the rewards a good strong marriage brings are endless. Make a commitment together that you will in the future avoid these so you have more time to do constructive activities.
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